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		<title>By: Jess</title>
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		<description>But if we forgive ourselves too quickly, how do we learn from our mistakes? Psychological research suggests that guilt can be quite useful: it makes us aware of how our actions affect other people. This can actually promote closeness and peace. Is there an allowance for a certain amount of &quot;healthy guilt&quot;? Where does our moral compass end and the &quot;void&quot; begin? (Just being the devil&#039;s advocate for a certain John A. Love&#039;s contribution to the reflections!)</description>
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